Lars' family from Birket, Lolland.
I hope everyone has a good summer. It's warm here, it rains sometimes - a typical Danish summer.
Lars and I have celebrated a milestone! On June 1st we celebrated our ruby wedding anniversary. 40 years together. Some days it feels, like it was yesterday, that we got married. The day after, we traveled to Bern in Switzerland and were sealed for all eternity. That means everything to us. Others get married "till death do us part". We believe in eternity! In a life together.
Lars has been quite ill. We have had a frank conversation with our doctor. It has now been decided that it is now more about quality of life than a lot of examinations/treatments. Things are happening to Lars that he does not want to be described.
Lars and I decided together to write this blog, and I therefore respect his decision.
We live every day. We bond closer than I thought possible.
Lars has had 3 wishes before his life comes to an close:
- To be older than his father.
- To be 70
- To experience our 40th wedding anniversary.
He has now experienced all 3 things.
Now he has started looking at pictures of his family. He wants to sort as many pictures as he can. (We have several boxes of pictures). It is great to see that he has found something to be interested in.
I hope we all find something to achieve/fight for. To leave something of ourselves for the younger generations that they can learn from - be happy about.
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Jeg håber alle har en god sommer. Her er det varmt, det regner ind i mellem - en typisk Dansk sommer.
Lars og jeg har fejret en milepæl. 1 Juni havde vi Rubin bryllup. 40 år sammen. Nogle dage er det, som om det blot var i går vi blev gift. At vi dagen efter rejste til Bern, Schweiz, og blev beseglet for al evighed. Det betyder alt for os. Andre bliver gift "til døden os skiller". Vi tror, på evighed! På et liv sammen.
Lars har været ret syg. Vi har haft en åbenhjertig samtale med vores læge. Det er nu besluttet, at det mere gælder livskvalitet, end en masse undersøgelser/behandlinger. Der sker ting med Lars, som han ikke ønsker skal beskrives. Lars og jeg besluttede sammen og skrive denne blog, og jeg respekterer derfor hans beslutning.
Vi lever hver dag. Vi knytter tættere bånd, end jeg troede muligt.
Lars havde 3 ønsker for livet:
- At blive ældre end hans far.
- At blive 70 år
- At opleve vores 40 års bryllupsdag.
Han har nu oplevet alle 3 ting.
Nu er han begyndt at se på billeder fra hans familie. Han vil gerne sortere så mange billeder han kan. (Vi har flere kasser med billeder). Det er dejligt at se, han har fundet noget at interessere sig for.
Jeg håber, vi alle, må finde noget at opnå/kæmpe for. At efterlade noget af os selv, til yngre generationer, som de kan lære af - glædes over.


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A card in a boxed envelope,for a Silver anniversary card, a boxed envelope. The card also has a pocket for money.